SESSION ON 11/19/02
of Spirit, please locate the records for ____________ born _______.
validation that the correct records have been located please give the
place of birth in the present incarnation.
[Note: This information is
you. She is seeking to know if she
has been associated in previous incarnations with the spirit known today as
______________ born in this incarnation on _____.
Hmmmm, yes. Other than this life time, previous associations, is that the
That’s the question.
This indicates three life
were the dates of these 3 life times and where were they?
The one was in Europe in the part you
would know now as Germany. 1142.
relationship?) Father and
son. (Their names?)
Sounds like Victor, Vitor, Vitor.
(This is the father or the son?)
The father. (And the son?) Hans
(Is their last name seen?)
No, they were peasants. (Who was the father? In
this life time the father is known as whom?)
The one known as _____, the woman.
second life time, where was it?
1492 in what is known as England.
(Their relationship then?)
Older brother, younger sister. (Who was the older brother?) The
woman is the older brother in that life time.
(What was the brother’s name
then? ) John.
[They were] John and Mary Beth Smythe.
the third life time was where?
What is known now as America, the United
States area that was as American Indians, in the Plains area, early 17th
century. (The Indian Tribe name, is it seen?) Part of the Sioux Nation.
(And their relationship?)
They were mated in that life time. (Which
was the male?) The woman.
(She was the male then?)
the name?) You want this in
their language? (Umm, yes, I would like to hear it in their language.)
Shaw wah ki [Note:
I am writing this phonetically- the “ki” is pronounced with a long
“i” as in kite.] (Thank you.
Very interesting, is there a spelling?)
Hmmm, you have the pen in your hand?
Then you write it as you hear it, they had no written language.
there uncompleted life lessons between them brought forward into this life?
There are several.
A feeling of needing to control and to resist being controlled.
(On one or both parts?)
Both parties involved, yes. (Is
there another, you said there were several.) One of feeling fearful of being in the others presence for
fear of losing control. (And so they are learning to do that with each other?)
You asked for life lessons. I
can’t predict. (Is there another life
lesson between them?) These
are ongoing, then they have to be working on them if they chose to complete
marriage between them be conducive or counterproductive to their higher good in
Hmmm, you could ask that question, but I
cannot answer it, for they’re the ones that are working out their life lesson.
If I were to say yes, that would be a possibility.
If I were to say no, that would be a possibility.
These [possibilities] are all
with their actions and interactions, actions and reactions.
You see, that’s part of the lesson isn’t it?
and she would ask you at this time if you have further guidance for her.
I would offer both of them this same
guidance, if you can call it guidance - a view, would perhaps be a better word -
that each must be their own person and that is one of the ongoing life
challenges, to be self within self, to be comfortable and happy with self, to
feel reliant upon self, to feel independent of other selves, to know oneself, to
like oneself. Yes, even to love
oneself. But without “self ish
ness” one cannot really know who one is.
The life lessons as we continue to see them grow would be learning more
about self and not having to depend upon a control or of being controlled by
another. Is not that clear? (Yes, it is.)
guidance to _______as to where her biggest blocks are, would that best be asked
of her Higher Self?
That would be good for her in
meditation. To ask to be shown that
through dreams, through thoughts, through her reactions from other people and
her own actions. Much can be
learned from observing oneself from a different vantage.
long wanted to ask, Master of Spirit, if before we incarnate in a life
incarnation, do we make chooses such as marriage, such as this is the person I
wish to connect with and be married to, or is that individual?
Am I hearing you asking “if we can
identify a person we’re going to meet and marry in a fore- going life time?”
(Yes, before we are even born.) Well, it may be true, but it is not of my knowledge.
(But, before we are born, two
spirits could make that commitment together?)
might make that type of person or a re-identifying of another spirit in
this life time about to begin, but how the outcome comes out would be foolish to
predict, would it not? (Yes,
it could change, I understand. And
so the same would be true with children? We
might say to souls, yes, I would be willing to be a parent for you, but whether
it happens or not…..) remains to be seen as those spirits move in or out
of embodiment and their actions interacting with others can change all of the
predictions, thus, we find that the life time lesson - or life term lesson - is
not completed and it moves again into another subsequent life term lesson.
(And when we are looking at
the body, when we choose our parents, do we know before we even incarnate how
long that body will live or the length of that incarnation?)
Again, the same rules apply - how would you know until you are there
and interact and react? If it were all that -
as you say cut and dried - if it were all that predetermined, then it wouldn’t
be a lesson. It would merely be
following a pattern you have pre-set for that life time.
The action within your self and the interaction with other selves and
spirits - whether they are embodied
or out of body - determines
what the lesson’s outcome will be. Thus,
giving you a completed lesson or maybe more, or an uncompleted lesson or more
uncompleted lessons to be fulfilled in subsequent life times.
(So when we have someone in
hypnosis - I’m thinking of a spirit of someone who died young - says I had no
intention of living a full life span….)
That was a choice that was completed.
(But that could have been altered
while she was here, if she decided to take more lessons?)
That could also be. When you
say free spirit, it actually means that. (And when people, when their bodies are injured and they are close to
death, even then the spirit can choose….) to stay or not to stay. (Depending on life lessons that remain or do not?)
And self - ish - ness.
you again, Master of Spirit.
You are most welcome.
now open the connection between the Higher Self of Hugh and the Higher Self of
_______. If the subconscious can
open to ________ Higher Self and we speak with it directly, that would be
preferable. If that is not possible
then making the connection between Hugh’s Higher Self and __________ Higher
I am in connection with the Higher Self of _______.
Self of _________ what is her
individual life lesson in this incarnation?
Well one of the lessons we are focused on is controlling our life and
controlling our actions and reactions and relationships.
of relationships, does she have beliefs at the subconscious levels, what we
might call programming that cause her difficulty in relationships?
Fear. The very basis
of all negativity.
fear is of?
Many things, but one of those is the
subconscious fear of relationships. You
may know that she has had previous relationships that were unsuccessful.
This fear, did it evolve from her
childhood, in relationship she saw with her parents, or elsewhere?
It evolved in many life times and in this one also.
what does she need to do to get past these blocks, beliefs, programming?
Well, she needs to identify with the opposite
of fear which would be a concept of self-appreciation and love, you might say,
and when she feels that totally and completely she is free to be in any
relationship she chooses.
know her well, Higher Self, what is the best approach for her in clearing
herself of these blocks and accepting this self-love?
Clearing and accepting.
Hmmmm. Well, she does do
some self-work, inside, but more of that would be helpful.
Asking her to form the blocks readily seen in dreams would give her a
better view of what might be the faster and most expedient way of pursuing the
completion of these challenges she has in this life.
teach a technique on our website of writing down the negative beliefs one thinks
one might have and then making a tape for oneself of erasing these and replacing
them with the new positive. Would that be helpful?
As she would work with her subconscious programming, yes that
would be helpful. But first she must determine what they are.
and this is best for you to do rather than for ask at this moment?
Well, she has fear that she has not
dealt with - that fear turns into a form of anger - even though it’s
suppressed because it’s not recognized and released that can form other
negative programs. It might learn
to feel resentment, frustration and that might not work through itself into the
open so she can release it and become [free] of the anxiety and feelings of
You know she will be very frustrated if I
don’t ask what guidance can you give her now as to where to look, where is
this fear rooted.
Inside herself of course. It starts
within, its part of her lesson.
Then, I’ll ask in this way…are there
inner ages that are important for her to work with…
Even as she was in her mother’s womb, it begins. If she would look to this with assistance or with guidance
within herself we would be glad to help her, but her subconscious and I cannot
do it alone.
[See Addendum At Bottom of the Page.]
Self of _________, I use the term Higher Self, is this how she thinks of you or
refers to you or is there a name or term she prefers to use?
I am just a part of her and her spirit
self so she could call me whatever she chooses. I don’t have any pet phrases if you can use that word.
part of her would you describe yourself as?
Her Spiritual Self.
is there guidance for her in establishing a clearer communication with you?
Is she clear in her communication?
(That’s what I’d like to know.)
She can do improvement as I have just stated, by more meditation and
asking for dreams that would give her guidance, but she - although having dreams
- does not write them down to study what they might eventually be if interpreted
according to her own inner self.
[See Addendum 2 At Bottom of
Does she meditate?
Yes, but not to the extent that she would be successful in doing
if she chose to set aside that time.
would you suggest to her would be good for meditation, what amount of time?
(Tape turns over) The time
element for meditation varies with the ability to focus in the depth of the
meditation. Sometimes a person is
quite disturbed and it takes longer to reach that point. Sometimes a person drifts into it in meditation.
You might tell her - describe to her or show her where she might find
what you call self-hypnosis. And using that she could give herself in the subconscious
state a guidance for changing, eliminating, correcting, modifying old programs
that are no longer serving her. You
see, once she understands what her goals are, then she no longer need follow the
path, but to finish the path and let the goal be a part of the completion of
that path by recognition and release. Learning
what she has, of course, from the time she’s been on the path and recognizing
the completion of that path.
Is there a time of day or evening that
matters with her meditations?
Oh she has good energies, she could
choose the time that would be most comfortable. Spirit doesn’t care about these things you know.
Whatever works well for her would be the best time and the best place for
her to be comfortable and secure.
When she meditates would a sound in the
background be disturbing, interfering, conducive to the meditation?
Like music, or chanting, or chimes or a mantra or earth sounds?
The choice is hers, I am a member of the
spirit and I’m comfortable with any of those because I’m not involved with
wants to have a family. Is there
any kind of - well that depends upon the relationship right?
That will come as another part of her
lesson, won’t it?
it will, I might ask you if there
is any life lesson prohibiting her having children in this life.
None that I know of.
In fact, that would be another part of learning control.
in the relationship with _________ the communication given by Higher Spirit,
would you add anything to that about this relationship?
No, this could be a wonderful completion
if they could both come to the same pathway that they are able to complete, they
can complete it together separately or severally.
Note: In case you wonder what “compete it together separately or
severally” means I think it means you each have the same or similar life
lesson and you can each complete this life lesson with each other or with other
people and you can complete it in this life or several lives.)
she does her work of clearing her blocks then there still remains work for him
to do, would that be correct?
That is correct.
He has his own path.
marriage between these two seen at the moment as a probability or not even in
Of course it is always a possibility and if they both pursue a positive path, it will probably come to pass.
Thank you, is there further guidance you
would provide her with at this time?
She is a beautiful, beautiful person and
needs to really recognize herself as such.
Love herself, like herself, and rely upon herself.
She can always talk to her Higher Self and her subconscious as well.
you Higher Self. We do thank Higher
Spirit and Higher Self and we do ask that Light always be with ______, which we
know it is, and if there is any message from Light for ________ it is certainly
welcomed and appreciated.
Very well. I always insist
on people enjoying light for I am there for them to enjoy.
But I want them to share me, Light, with all the other people so I would
invite her to not only enjoy “Light Meditation” but to involve other people
in “Light Meditation”. The more
we involve others the faster the changes in this wonderful Earth will occur.
Pamela Note: I
think the “with assistance” advice
by Higher Spirit refers to a person helping you with regression therapy, beginning with a
womb regression. This would most
probably be a hypnotherapist or a psychologist or psycho-therapist trained in
hypnosis for regressions. The
“With guidance within herself” might refer to the same, or might mean you
can do this with dream work maybe or self-hypnosis/meditation - asking to be
shown or to know what occurred while you were in the womb that created fear.
The “subconscious and I cannot do it alone” means - I believe - you
have to become consciously aware of what happened so you can talk to your inner
age baby and reassure her. For
example: I discovered in regression
therapy with hypnosis that my mother quit eating for several weeks when she
found she was pregnant with me. She
was trying to starve the developing baby to death.
The baby was so sad, so hungry, so fearful and so sorry she was hurting
her mother and bringing her sorrow and shame that the baby wanted to die.
That the baby had this kind of reaction tells me the baby was not feeling
connected with the spiritual self (Higher Self) which could have brought the
baby comfort as well as supplying life force to the baby’s body - which it was
doing. In other words, the
spiritual self/higher self was right there, but the baby’s emotions were
blocking her being aware of this so she “bought into” the sadness, rejection
and negativity surrounding her. So after this regression, I sat in a chair and closed my
eyes. I asked my subconscious to
open the communication to the “baby me in the womb”.
Then I put myself into a light hypnotic trance.
This is easy to do. Physically
relax the body. I often have
tension in my jaws and shoulders, so I make sure I check for this and relax the
jaws and shoulders. Then focus on a
sound that is peaceful and quiets the mind.
Sometimes I put on an ocean waves tape.
Sometimes I just listen to my breathing. As I listen to the sound I slowly count down 10 to 1.
Either I count the waves (but this is so relaxing to me I only count down
5 to 1) or I count my breaths or I imagine I am stepping down 10 steps to my
“island” where whomever I am speaking to is waiting for me.
This time I imagined I was stepping down 10 steps to a lagoon where the
“baby me” would be. When I got
to 1, I imagined I went into the water in the lagoon to talk to the “baby
me”. I took her in my arms.
I held her and rocked her and said to her:
“You were not a mistake. Your
mommy prayed for something wonderful to happen in her life and you were the
something wonderful sent to her. She
didn’t realize this because she was out of touch with her spiritual self.
She will realize it some day. She
will come to love you as I love you. I
love you very much. You are very
important to me. You are very
special and without you my life would not be.
You are my beginning. I
don’t want you or me to be out of touch with our spiritual self.
There is a light inside you. Here,
I will help you find it. That is
your spiritual self. It will feed
your body and help you grow. Keep
it with you always.”
You see? You talk to the age
you as you would to that age child, keeping in mind children are so much smarter
than adults think. I found in a later regression done in hypnosis that the
“baby me” in the womb - when I said to look for her light inside her - saw
what she called a “parachute lady” holding her, feeding her, and loving her.
When Dr. Harmon asked the baby to describe the “parachute lady” she
said a “beautiful angel with a big light like a parachute around her”.
I think this is the form the light our (baby me and me) spiritual
self/higher self took for the baby but she was so emotionally upset she
couldn’t see it then.
Since I figured the subconscious - which always fights to survive - was
angry about being starved, I did another session myself, sitting in the chair.
I told the baby me she needed to tell her mother how mad she was that she
tried to starve her and didn’t want her.
This time I picked up a piece of paper and let the “baby” write it
out. Sometimes, I’ll do the
self-hypnosis I described above and tell the age me I want to speak her mind to
speak it when we get to 1. After
I had the “baby” write out her anger, I did the self-hypnosis and invited
the body to speak its anger. When
this was done, I imagined holding the baby again and stroking her body - patting
her tummy etc. - and telling it not to worry, it would not be starved ever again
because I would feed it and the parachute lady would be with it always.
Dr. Harmon and I also checked to find if I’d ever starved
in a previous life and found I had. We
did regressions to these lives -
and I did some of my own “chair work” with these.
If I didn’t have him, I would have asked to be shown in meditation or
in a dream any other times in which my embodied soul suffered starvation.
By the way, when I want to open the communication with my
Higher Self in my “chair work” I will count down 10 to 1 first, then I will
do various things (I like variety) to “get to” the Higher Self.
Sometimes I will imagine I come to a spiraling stair case leading up to
and through the clouds to “the light”.
I will climb this or glide up this or sometimes a cloud comes down and
lifts me up. Sometimes I skip the
stair case and “step through” my third eye.
I will always ask when I get “there”
that my Higher Self draw near and make its presence known.
That’s when I feel the coolness gather.
(Sometimes, when I know I don’t need any of this preparation, I just
begin with this.) I have trained my
subconscious mind to move a “yes” indicator finger when the Higher Self
communication is ready to speak verbally. You
can read about how to do this training of the subconscious
in the “How To Connect To Your Higher Self” in the Treasure Chest of
When you are not in the “mood” for meditation, this
self-hypnosis preparation will help you settle the body and calm the mind for
note: The self-hypnosis technique I
suggested iabove would be a good way of getting this inner self dream
interpretation. Sit in your chair,
read aloud your dream, ask the Higher Self or your “Dream Master Self” or
your “Inner Self” or any term you prefer to give you the meaning of the
dream. Then do the 10 - 1
relaxation and quieting mind, then whatever you imagine will lead you to your
“Dream Master Self”. Keep on a
tape recorder if you are afraid you will miss what is given. Eventually, with repeated sessions - or maybe even
right away - you may be able to sit
down to a computer and enter the same state of hypnosis - which is focused
concentration - and write out the communications you have with the various
levels of you.